Clean Up Conversations

“In my defenselessness my safety lies.” ACIM The realization that one’s life has left behind many relationships incomplete, fearing that they may one day have to confront those from their past and reconcile the mess they left behind, leaves one avoiding life and its’...

Cutting Edge Performance

POWER By Werner Erhard, March 21, 1983 Your power is a function of velocity, that is to say, your power is a function of the rate at which you translate intention into reality.  Most of us disempower ourselves by finding a way to slow, impede, or make more...

Reality or Illusion?

Experience has both reality and illusion components in it. Both worlds are present yet one is superimposed over the other. The illusion has been superimposed over reality. This view of the world becomes the personal world of the individual. The personal realty the “I”...

Communication and Perception

Starting with the certainty that I am 100% responsible for my life being the way it is and it is not – it is essential to recognize that my belief systems are the core cause of my life experience. A belief is the result of a personal, culturally conditioned...

The Right Use of Language

It occurs to me that my world is created in language. By being aware of how language impacts me, I can alter my occurring world by altering language-what I believe and say.  The following is an excerpt from one of my favorite books in the chapter titled, The Right Use...

What Am I Waiting For?

IF NOT YOU, WHO? Waiting for someone else to do it, kept me out of the experience of peace and joy. To realize each moment that no one is coming to my rescue had me realize, I am the one! I am the savior I have been waiting for. It is said that insanity is doing the...

Hidden Double Binds

As humans, our minds contain a complex collection of programs that we have inherited and acquired though our lifetime. These programs are composite mixes of conflicting data all vying for expression in our lives. The conflicted programming we have inherited keeps our...

Authenticity Deepens Relationships

Have you ever wondered why your greatest friends can tell you anything? Relationships that are authentic feel caring, accepting and kind. Real sympathy is derived by sharing from the heart and telling it like it is. Ester and Amy are best friends. They were not always...